All About anal
Anal sex remains one of the most searched terms on the internet. And yet, most people are fucking terrified about it. Why? Because we have this misinformed idea that it is only for men who have sex with men or that it’s dirty! I’d like to take that idea and park it. Right now.
Why does anal sex feel so good?
There are hundreds or nerve endings inside the anus, secondary only to the clitoris (which those of you who have one will know feels really good!) these feel really good when they are stimulated either using fingers, toys, a penis - whatever you choose (although please stay away from anything that’s not meant to be up there - you don’t want the embarrassing trip to A&E, trust me).
Prepping for Anal
Perhaps the most important thing you can do before you try any butt-stuff is to prep properly. Piss poor performance is usually due to piss poor preparation and, unfortunately anal does fall into this category.
The most important thing you can do is ensure you are relaxed - breathing exercises can help, so can full bodied muscle relaxation (think squeezing all your muscles from the tips of your toes to the base of your neck one by one, and slowly releasing them). However you relax, do this tenfold. If alcohol and drugs are something you use, please do so mindfully. Anal sex is something that if you are trying it for the first time you want to be switched on about in case anything goes wrong.
Top Tip - Be relaxed. I cannot stress this enough, make sure that before any butt-play either with yourself or a partner that you are feeling comfortable. If you feel tense in any way either you’re not going to be successful or it won’t be a comfortable experience. If you’re having sex with a partner make sure to talk to them about what you’re worried about beforehand. If you’re with a supportive partner, I promise they won’t give a shit (pun intended) if anything gets a little messy.
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To douche or not to douche, the age-old question?
How you wish to prep for anal sex from a cleanliness point of view is down to personal preference. Some people are happy to just shower and ensure things are as clean as they can be, and others prefer to douche (which you can buy as a kit from amazon if needed) involving a deeper clean of the insides, others wish to go the whole hog and get an enema. It is really just about what works for you.
THE ONLY THING I WANT YOU TO TAKE AWAY FROM THIS BLOG IS TO USE LUBE.
LUBE, LUBE AND MORE LUBE.
If you think you’ve used enough, use more. That’s it. And don’t double-dip (go from anus to vagina) unless you want a one way ticket to UTI-city (which, believe me, you don’t).
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